She told me she need space and I told her its ok, take her time to think about it and come back to me when shes comfortable with her decision. Right now I think its best to really focus on the things you enjoy. I thought was doing the right thing by being there for her and giving what I thought she wanted/needed from a supportive man. Good luck! It seems as though you may have lost yourself in this process and you need to build attraction and find yourself again. Best, I dont know what to do. She seems great and i see her hanging out; I want her to be okay. We would argue about it. Apollonia. Will it be bad for me if I reach out to her on Sunday if I havent heard from her? Prior to this everything seemed to be going fine and normal as usual. Best, She said she needs 2 weeks space to get her head straight about things, the relationship, how much we both want it. We knew our relationship needed work and she took on a job out of state and I finally agreed I would move down there because I didnt want to lose her. This means theres a reason she got into that marriage to begin with 5 or 6 months isnt enough time to really heal from it it s going to take time. What you will find here is dating, relationship, and life advice from your host along with some amazing interviews with some pretty amazing experts! The best thing that you can do to not push her away is improve your social life. Should we keep going to this dance trainings together or its better to focus on the no-call/radio silence strategies ? I was a little bummed out but understood considering i felt the same to begin with. But Im still scared that maybe she doesnt want this relationship anymore and is just asking for a space to slowly wean out the relationship. Hello mam Was it fighting, being overbearing. Not on my team but same office so I see her every day. Any thoughts? I honestly can say that I want to marry her and have family and all. My fiance of 5 years recently initiated a separation. I listen and doing that but not sure if Im doing the right thing? Then after i said her lets forget about all the things .can you answer me do you want to be stay with me or not.she said i dont know i want to be with you or not.please give me some time leave me alone for a while. My long-distance girlfriend of ~2 months (have been talking for over a year now, I live in KCMO and she lives in MT but travels a lot) is a personal trainer as well as starting her own apparel brand, and can do neither of those from her home. After the last time I was at her place when helping her move out she said im going to take some distance but she did say i will speak to you soon alright. I have a feeling shes already dating other people. Then I cleared my head a bit and told her that was selfish of me, and I was gonna give her the respect/trust she deserves and to call when shes ready to talk. I thought was doing the right things by giving her space but I have been going crazy emotionally because I dont want to lose her. She used to a lot She always told me that she cares for me, appreciates me, loves me and we talked about the possibility of moving together. She said she misses me but is enjoying spending time with a couple of her female friends and does not want to see me all the time. Can you give me the short answer of why she asked for space? She gave me a time frame of 1 week up to 1 month. Even though I live in apartment we share our checks and Bills in the same account. Hi Timothy. She seems to still have tthe same feelings for me llove etc. She says she loves me, cant lose me, she thinks we will not be together in future and says has concerns over how will I feel if she says she cant be with me in the future. Give her the space and fill your time with finding your hobbies, the things you enjoy. 1 of our own and I took on 2 bonus kids. If she does not respond after a certain amount of time, it may be best to reach out to her again. The blog gives a few examples of what you could do to give her that space, how to go about it, and what it really means but if you would like further advice on it I would recommend speaking to a coach. The only difference is we no longer kiss, hug, or have sex. But a couple months later she got kicked out and had no other place to go so I told her she can move in with me at my parents house in the meantime. What I would suggest is to figure out what made the both of you break up and start from there. This had upset me that she was still friends and I told her she was basically keeping her options open. Now we havent talked in three days and I know that doesnt seem so long but to me it is, especially because I worry there is a chance we might get seperated after high school. Not sure where to go from here? We both feel like that we have a soul mate connection. Best, I could tell you to wait for 3 months or 3 years but that wont mean much to you because it doesnt take into account your feelings, your expectations and life Never had problems in relationship. Starting the next day she went back to her old ways while we were together of texting good morning and throughout the day. Has been going through menopause for a year now, and I was worried a midlife crisis may come on and this happens. If I should text, what should text her? She then suggested we meet again this coming Friday for a few more drinks at a bar that when we were really close we had said we should try out together. Hello Benjamin, thank you for reading When she says she needs space, heres what to do! In order to get advice pertaining to your situation, I would encourage you to book a coaching session with her so she can help. So I need some advice about my situation and what should you think I do. Best, Hi Apollonia. We were living together also and then moved out because she wants space. It seems as though you may be too needy and attached and this is why she asked for space. I knew i needed to address my insecurities. hello my fiance of 2 months been together for 4 years told me 2 days after Christmas she wanted her space. https://www.apolloniaponti.com/masteryourconfidence Hi Theres a reason why shes ignoring you so dont avoid that. Im confused and I dont know what to do and struggling to be happy this week. I understand how confusing this is and Im sorry to hear about your current situation. She talks with me we are in the same class in college. We have been talking about marriage for a long time and this seems like a far cry from that, Hi Brandon, She says that for the last two weeks there are frequent silence moments between us when were together at her studio and that we dont talk that much anymore like in the beginning. What do you think? She told me that it was alot of things that pilled up. She was fine on Monday, but on tuesday morning she just sprung this on me. So we had a talk after she wanted to break up. Like a few days from when she said she needs space? Heres a direct link to where you could access coaching https://www.apolloniaponti.com/private-coaching/ She said she will always love me and she misses me also. I said ok and that was that What were your weaknesses in this relationship that lead you to the point that she needs space? I have included the links if interested. Honestly, weve been through a lot, last night she said that What should I do? I am worried about giving her enough space to forget about me but also worried about pushing her away. Heres where you could go to contact a coach. She said she needs space. That was the last straw. As I read your article. Hello John, Hey Ben, https://www.apolloniaponti.com/private-coaching/ Just imagine spending a whole day with your partner. We both enjoyed it as we were together all night until the morning the next day. with all this said we do have some indifferences which we debated on a few occasions such as medical values to having a vaccine for the current Covid virus which Im currently not comfortable to take due to my medical conditions. Im not sweet anymore YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/c/ApolloniaPontiInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/apollonia_ponti/Blog:https://www.apolloniaponti.com/blog/ The other day I went over to her house and she waited till the kids were in bed then she told me she need some space. A lot of men think that if they do this when she said she needs space, they will not be supporting their girlfriend or wife. Hi We got in a little fight which looked like she was putting her frustrations on me and she dropped me off at my car than I txted her as I was driving back home and said can we talk about this and she replied immediately and turned around to talk to me. Like today, I had an interview that she knew about, and didnt say anything before hand and still hasnt asked how it went. WebAnswer (1 of 7): Usually yes. Should I text her during this time just to tell her Im thinking of her or hope your well, or just leave her alone?? Cause Im at limbo. I owe her alot. We recently spent six fantastic weeks as friends with benefits. Hope this helps. Im stuck in this hotel cause I have no where to go or do. Right now is the best time for you to reflect on yourself. Hey am asaph my girlfriend asked for space bt I dont know what to do, Hi Nasasira. Apollonia and Team. Doing something will keep your mind busy thinking about something positive that you enjoy instead of thinking negative thoughts like, What is shes doing? Best of luck! Are you confused about what you should do? Space can be from a couple of hours to a couple of days or weeks, says Ruiz, though he generally doesnt recommend his clients take longer than 3 to 4 weeks. Apollonia, Can I know what happend afterwards? I would highly suggest you book a coaching call with any one of our coaches using this link: https://www.apolloniaponti.com/private-coaching/, Your email address will not be published. You can go here to connect with a coach https://www.apolloniaponti.com/private-coaching/ When the divorce was final, reality hit and she was confused. Girlfriend for 4 months. Over the past 2 or 3 months she has been very hot and cold towards me, Some days she will feel totally in-love with me and other days she will feel nothing towards me (We have spoken about it together). I personally did not know she felt this way because she never said anything about it. When she started taking her classes things changed dramitcally. I knew that was the death message so I was very upset to start. But before we go into this, I think its important for me to state one thing. I didnt give her the space she asked for because i felt cheated on. She has always been unable to express her emotions properly. Ive had a few great relationships but this has been the greatest. So recently I started dating a girl who just came off an abusive relationship. Thank you for reaching out and supporting us! If she does not you wont be around for it. She was depressed and that she didnt want to be seen in that state. She said I didnt have to but I did. We have been broken up for 5 months now. Hello Dustin, Did she explain why? Next, think about the conversation that youre going to have with her because life happens. Ive known this girl since 7th grade but we only saterted so see each other a few months ago. We went from seeing each other all the time to here and there. Hope this helps! I approached her about it and she explained to me we needed to talk. Furthermore, if a woman is being emotional and is doing this for attention, this is your time to ask her to dig a little deeper into her insecurities and to figure it out and fix it because you cannot play these games with her. I was in a relationship for 7 yes and we had 2 kids together. Im going to leave her be and hopefully shell reach out to me. Working on you and not being clingy will be the first step. I have not contacted her since. She then tells me that she doesnt think theres any hope for us and says it has nothing to do with the other guy. Best, From all of this shes reached out to me once about a second job she got I congratulated her and left it at that. Im just like do you even want me around anymore and she says maybe not no. It sounds like you might have pushed her away. My ex and I dated for over a year and then got engaged. This is vital to every relationship because communication is key. We continued talking and seeing each other for a month I tried to see if there is progress or else im going to go no longer any further. Or she thought you ignored her. Apollonias team. But the problem is whenever i see her online or whenever she posts and story or pic i feel pain inside me. And just see if she opens up the conversation, great, if not, great. Yes, this is the best thing that you can do. We did went to a zoo as a date in these two weeks and that went really well (also according to her). All of a sudden she said she wants to be alone at the moment and can only handle her life we both had a lot of stress lately her with dealing with debts and working a lot of the time and me with my children Ive given her space no calls or texts I do bump into her at work most days and she does still talk to me at work I do love this woman very much and want to make us work again please can you help, Hi Jeremy, The times we spent together we both had a lot of fun and I just dont know if I should move on or not. She also said she was unsure about the future. Hi Lewis, Its upsetting because we were so happy but I think because of a month of unhappiness with us both and I dare say the added stress of uni may now have ruined the relationship. A guy from this group keeps texting her continuously and invites for events and parties. Thank you for your help! While that happened she stopped being so clingy and we have not had sex in almost a month. (She use to tell me she wont be happy with me, she made me do big promises like I wont leave her at any cost etc etc ) I mean everything was so smooth then all of sudden she started getting frustrated with me. Thats your job. She did apply for a new job elsewhere last month and have put her resignation in, but talking the other day she said she might stay, cause she feels bad leaving her boss struggling to find someone to replace her and others. I have a workethic problem and is hard for me to keep a job longer than 6 months at a time we have 2 kids. Is there a time when I should reach out to her if she hasnt contacted me? But i was always the one to visit her as she has own place her and i dont she knew i am easy to talk to so can ask to leave I think maybe i said i love you and miss you a few times AFTER 3 months or more and a few home made pressies . She has 4 kids they are all step kids but Ive spent 10 yrs of my life with them. Can this all go back to the way it was if I focus on me until she contacts me? We just had the phone call about her needing space. together 8 months. If she felt that you were suffocating her. Because its happening to me right now. I asked if she wants to see any one else or started talking to someone during out break and she said no. (she doesnt want to be with me. However, at that time, she broke up with her ex. I want to save my marriage at all possible. We talked on the phone for the first time last night and I apologized for my wrong doings. If she was telling you something like I just need a friend right now and shes not ready for a relationship then thats your red flag. any news ,how are you ecc, Hi Jhon. This is an old video so hopefully you see this post. Apparently I didnt make any effort with them and about 2 months ago we started to not get on as well and were at each other more than normal. Should i send her subtle messages or anything like that? So last week me and my 6month relationship girlfriend had brunch with my sister, my sister spoke about about my ex, and how she had liked her so much but it hurt when she deceived me. Hello Jayshawn, She calls me just about everyday & we talk. So I would say no to the following reason. Loving the positivity! I took her virginity and weve only been dating a little over a month. Thank you for your blogs and videos, they really are great insight and super helpful to us idiot guys! For the last 2 weeks since we made new contact, we do talk daily, but there are some days she is distant and others more friendly. She means everything to me but I dont know what my next step is or what it should be..do you think theres still a chance in the future? She asked for space the first time a month ago but I knew she was mad at me about something, so I gave her space. Do you think she will ever completely heal and trust me to be there for her again? Tyler, I love her and I cant stand losing her, Hi Thomas, A bit of the back story is that we were pretty good for a couple of years, my parents are divorcing ever since November and my sister has been going through a bad time ever since Christmas. Very Informative post. Now she tells me the next day that she is lost and confused and just needs space and that she loves me. We met on a dating site it was our last effort on this site the last kick at the can if you may say we spent 16 weeks of enjoyment her not working and I as well not working ,, I met a beautiful goddess she is everything that Ive ever wanted in a woman we are both older and have been around the block and we know want,, and is a very exciting and knowledgable about the same things,, she has been abandoned many times from other men and I am the one that wont abandon her because she knows how I feel about her she just wants me to fix the things that she doesnt like about me ,, I must make these changes , in other words and I have been doing these things in a rapid rate and she has praised me on the progress , I treasured her and shes the girl I have looked for all my life she has broken up with me several Times saying that I need to fix myself,, things take time she seems not to want to be around me while I fix myself ,,, and she needs her space since I have showered her with gifts concerts and a great summerluv ,,now fall is upon us and she still has found reason to stop seeing me and wants her space ,, I showed up at her work in the rain with supper,,that I made her fav ,, went back to her place ,, she said only 15 minutes and then I have to rest ,,brushed her hair, rubbed her neck and shoulders and calves ,, rub her feet and listen to her problems of course she did not like this in the end because I was not invited ,, it was a surprise she worked late Tuesday and starts early Wednesday so we only have a brief time to see each other but she says she needs her rest ,,the rest of the week I do not see her except on a Saturday and no sex has been happening for at least a month prior to that it was incredibly amazing and I must say I rocked her world and left her speechless ,, as well as I am speechless ,,so my question is, I will honour her space no contact with her,, although there is an event coming up in a month that I was supposed to go to and I was assured that I was to attend ,, !! 7th District AME Church: God First Holy Conference 2023 - Facebook She has kept this to herself and there been no mention or any expression of her feeling so we can work together to put it right..or try! Hi Sam, thank you for taking the time to read When She Says She Needs Space. Apollonia. I finally met a very attractive and successful female. Idk why she hasnt messaged me She loved this idea. Hi Apollonia, So we decided to be friends , things were going good talking everyday and we had a very strong connection that was still there then she started becoming cold and resistant and one week she just didnt reply to my message but then she sent me stuff on social media , after that the next week we had plans and she canceled for legidiment reasons and she apologized for not seeing me then she doesnt text me all week and we had plans for Saturday so I messaged her and she didnt reply and I called her and she didnt answer so I asked her if I did any thing wrong and why is she ignoring me , she said she was busy with tests all week and was brushing me off , so this past week I was asking if she wanted to hang cause I was going on vacation and she had already made plans this week , I felt she was brushing me off so I expressed my self that Im trying and I felt she was pushing me away and being cold so after a few hours I got a text message saying Listen I really think I need space I am sorry .

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